After getting married, you will realize that the factors determining the happiness of your marriage have nothing to do with his height, weight, or how handsome he looks. What determines the happiness of your marriage is his emotional stability, his dedication to work, his character, kindness, empathy, absolute loyalty to the marriage, the values and upbringing instilled in him by his family, the synergy of 1+1 being greater than 2, and his willingness to stand by your side when you are in need rather than leaving you to deal with everything alone. Your partner truly matters because this is the only chance you have to choose your family, but you must choose the right person because he will be the light of your life in the years to come.

结完婚之后，你会发现，能决定你婚姻是否幸福的，跟他的身高没有关系，跟体重也没有关系，跟他长得帅不帅更没有关系。能决定你婚姻幸福，是他的情绪稳定，是他认真工作，是人品，是善良，是换位思考，是对婚姻的绝对忠诚，是他原生家庭刻在骨子里的三观和教养，是1+1要大于2，是你无助的时候，他能为你冲锋陷阵，而不是鸡飞狗跳只有你一个人。伴侣真的很重要，因为这是你唯一一次能自己选择家人的机会，但一定要选择对的人，因为他是你后半生的光。